Case Study: Reconnecting through Rhythm and Familiar Object from the Past

– by Ben Segal

When I learned from Dave’s family that he had once been a professional drummer, I brought a pair of drumsticks into our next session. The moment he held them, his whole expression changed — he smiled, softened, and instinctively positioned them like a drummer.

As the music of Guns N’ Roses and Soundgarden filled the room, Dave became more focused and relaxed. For the first time, he spoke with me. While holding the sticks, and listening to the music, small rhythmic movements began in his hands – it was like his body was remembering what his mind had forgotten.

This powerful breakthrough showed how familiar objects from someone’s past can unlock memory, spark communication, and create meaningful connection.